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Just a few things that popped in my head…

People always ask me why I am so happy now. Its simple, very very simple. I take control of my life now. I have decided what it takes to make me happy then I make decisions to get there.

Tell the truth and surround yourself with people that are ok with that.

To some people in my life who can’t accept the truth, I will not defend my words and actions to make them believe me. Believing myself is not my problem. In my last relationship, I spent so much energy trying to get him to see that I am an open book that it turned me into a person I didn’t like. I was continually trying to make him see that I am a genuine person without motives. If given the chance to see him, I can tell him to go to hell and shake hands with the devil!

Just so you know, this kind of life is not easy. I am just letting you know that you did something I dont like. People will have a hard time believing this. But again, that’s his problem. Look at it this way, “if you try to make other people’s ways yours then go ahead and sign up for unhappiness”.

As for me, I have reversed my frame of mind. I have thought of how to fend for myself like tapping into my latent ability to be a strong and independent woman.I put some gloss in my character and personality by my independence! I like myself better this way, and I gained self-respect more.

I see my kids so delighted also that I have carved a new life for myself.

Finally I feel like I am in control and I make the decisions who is in and out of my life.

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Something Nice….

I feared being alone
until I learned to like myself.

I feared failure until I realized
that I only fail when I don’t try.

I feared success until I realized that I had
to try in order to be happy with myself.

I feared people’s opinions until I learned
that people would have opinions about me anyway.

I feared rejection
until I learned to have faith in myself.

I feared pain until I learned
that it’s necessary for growth.

I feared the truth until
I saw the ugliness of lies.

I feared life until
I experienced its beauty.

I feared death until I realized
that it’s not an end, but a beginning.

I feared my destiny until I realized
that I had the power to change my life.

I feared hate until I saw
that it was nothing but ignorance.

I feared ridicule until
I learned how to laugh at myself.

I feared growing old until
I realized that I gained wisdom every day.

I feared the future until
I realized that life just kept getting better.

I feared the past until
I realized that it could no longer hurt me.

I feared the dark until
I saw the beauty of the starlight.

I feared the light until
I learned that the truth would give me strength.

I feared change until I saw
that even the most beautiful butterfly
had to undergo a metamorphosis
before it could fly…

If you want to take your mission in life to the next level,
if you’re stuck and you don’t know how to rise,
don’t look outside yourself. Look inside.
Don’t let your fears keep you mired in the crowd.

taken from janyl…inspiring kc…o ivan comment ka na nman jan!
“Mr. Anonymous” po galing….
research ko pa cno my akda haha!

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I Rule!…..

ei…grabeh!as i headed 2 the ofc…this song was played sa jip….cool tlga, as in it woke my senses…

WHEN LOVE AND HATE COLLIDE (Def Leppard)u

You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind
Instead of slamming down the phone girl, for the hundredth time
I got your number on my wall, but I aint gonna make that call
When divided we stand baby, united we fall

Got the time got a chance gonna make it
Got my hands on your heart gonna take it
All I know I cant fight this flame
You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind
Cause Im crazy bout you baby, time after time

Without you
One night alone
Is like a year without you baby
Do you have a heart of stone
Without you
Cant stop the hurt inside
When love and hate collide

I dont wanna fight no more, I dont know what were fighting for
When we treat each other baby, like an act of war
I could tell a million lies and it would come as no surprise
When the truth is like a stranger, hits you right between the eyes
Theres a time and a place and a reason
And I know I got a love to believe in
All I know got to win this time

You could have a change of heart, if you would only change your mind
Cause Im crazy bout you baby…crazy…crazy

Without you
One night alone
Is like a year without you baby
Do you have a heart of stone
Without you
One night alone
Is like a year without you baby
If you have a heart at all
Without you
Cant stop the hurt inside
When love and hate collide

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Anything that defies my sense of reason….

So, where am I going with all of this? My writing may seem like a flurry of disconnected thoughts and ramblings, but I really can tie them all in together again. To me, it really boils down to one main concept - us. Forget all the external pressures - how the we play on each-other deep down will determine how well we can weather the storm known as life. All go through similar phases, all suffer from common pitfalls, and all will have periods of deep satisfaction as well as deep frustration. Funny enough, really no partner is “right” or “wrong” in these arguments. Two people carrying different sets of values and having different experiences and world views can, will, and do come to different conclusions on a single issue. Neither is correct - simply a difference in value. I’ll admit, I personally don’t know what will happen to me in the future, but as for now, for me, I believe in the strength of the commitment to those vows,….My personal two cents are worth…you guessed it….This leaves the original question yet unanswered.tying this all back into the concept of the site - well, the above is a viewpoint…

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